Salaam alaikum wa rahmatallah, dear brothers and sisters. I would like to take a few minutes of your time and give a voice to my sisters that may feel they have none.
Foremost, my brothers in Islam, I need you to know that when you hurt a sister you are hurting a Muslim. Allah Says in Surah 2:85 - and I remind you that if you believe in only part of the Scripture, you will suffer in this life and go to hell in the next:
"O ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness, that ye may take away part of the dower [money given by the husband to the wife for the marriage contract] ye have given them, except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing, and Allah (SWT) brings about through it a great deal of good.
Dear brothers, I want you to see that it is not my opinion it is Qur'an it what Allah has forbidden! And when you oppress, you are committing a crime:
…….. OPPRESSION is worse than murder. [2:191]
When oppression and forcing the young girls into prostitution is a factor, this changes the nature of prostitution than of prostitution practiced by consenting adults. It is, in my opinion, a type of rape. Of course both kinds are condemned but adding the oppression dimension changes its nature into a rape with its consequence of higher need for a stronger punishment.
[24:33] ……..You shall not force your girls to commit prostitution, seeking the materials of this world, if they wish to be chaste. If anyone forces them, then ALLAH (SWT), seeing that they are forced, is Forgiver, Merciful.
From the above Qur'anic position we see that rape is one of the hideous crimes and one of the worst in the sight of Allah (SWT). It is considered a complicated crime that involves violence, oppression, and sex. I wanted to show you that this is fact, and if you fear Allah you will not harm them!! And to my lovely sisters please know that this is wrong. Allah does not want you to hurt all your life. This is not Islam.
Your husband is to be your mate and to help you with food, clothing, love, and kindness. If you are afraid of your husband than he does not fear Allah and not worthy of you!! Please help each other. I will do my best to help. If you speak up, you are not only helping yourself, but you are helping other sisters, the brother that is harming you, and your children. If you have a son and he does this Allah might place him in Hell, so just standing up for yourself, you are rising up for many more. Let us stand as one Ummah for all! I have much love for you all, and I pray I see you all in Jannah. If we help each other out by getting the evil actions out of Muslims, doing as our beloved prophet (SAAW) taught us, then we will succeed! May Allah have Mercy on all of us and Guide us to The Right Path. Ameen !!!!